Do you ever wonder how it is that some people just magically attract wonderful relationships into their lives?

For years, I struggled in my relationships, especially my love life. No matter how many books I read, no matter how many seminars I attended (and there were many!), no matter how much I "learned," I just couldn't seem to figure out what I was doing wrong...

Then something magical started happening when I began applying the Law of
Attraction to ALL areas of my life... not just in my business or around prosperity, but my relationships too.

Everything started to transform.

Unhappy relationships can be a huge energy drain on our systems... or at least they are for me. Even if my business is going strong, if my relationships are going sideways, everything feels out-of-sync.

The first thing I did when I began this journey of applying the law of attraction to my relationships was to get really clear about what I wanted.
What did I want my relationships to look like? More importantly, how did I want to feel in my relationships?

I wrote down all the qualities and characteristics I wanted my partner to have and how I wanted to feel around him. How did I want us to interact? I wrote it down. How did I want him to interact with my daughter? I wrote it down... everything I could possibly think of that I wanted in a partner.

I looked back at my previous relationships and noticed what specific traits I had loved about them and I included those aspects in my new vision.

If you open up to it, there are always aspects of past relationships that were positive... even if it was just how that special person looked at you.

And I looked back at some of the things I didn't love about some of my
relationships and then turned them around to figure out what I did want.
The contrast I had experienced (what I didn't want), provided wonderful clues about what I did want.

You've heard the expression, "What you put your attention on expands.” Well when you start putting your attention on all the things you want in a partner or in a relationship, that's what starts showing up... in incredibly miraculous ways.

If you want to attract the love of your life, the first secret is to get really clear about what you want and write it down. One of my favorite quotes from the book, “The Passion Test,” is "When you are clear, what you want will show up in your life, and only to the extent you are clear.”

Simple, but profoundly true.

What kind of love do you really want in your life?

Give it some thought, even if you're already in a relationship, and write it down.

Energetically, you'll be announcing your intentions to the Universe so it can start bringing you what you want. Then the magic begins…


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© 2008 Dawn Allen


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