You know what you don't want but do you know what you do want? Isn't it funny how when you ask a group of people where they want to go to eat they can immediately tell you where they don't want to go, but finding the answer to where to go seems to take forever. It's great to know what you don't want and that is half the battle. Finding what you do want can be a bit tricky.

When applying the Law of Attraction it's important to find what it is that you want. That is where you want to put your focus on. Are you saying, "I don't want this in my life" or are you saying "I do want this in my life"? Wherever you place your focus is what is going to come to you. If you place your focus on the don't want you are saying that you don't want this to come about and the feelings attached to the don't are usually the emotions of struggle and lack. Some can't understand why, when they say what they don't want, it comes to them.

Let's look at an example: You have an argument with a family member and you feel bad about it. You say to a friend of yours, "I don't want to fight. It makes me so upset." Do you see where this is headed? Can you feel the sadness in the don't want? This is going to bring you more of the same with the Law of Attraction. Maybe not through the same family member but in a vibration that matches your don't want. If you don't want to argue with your family member you could instead take the way of 'hope'. "I do want a solution to our argument." This feeling of determination shows the Universe what it is that you want and that is what will come to you. A solution of what you want.

So are you saying yes or no to what you focus on? Are you focusing on the yes of the want or the no of the don't want? Just a few changes of thought and feelings will put you in the direction that is needed to accomplish a positively driven path. Are you focusing on the do wants of your life? Are you seeing the hope in what it is that you want? Can you see the unlimited possibilities to your life? You don't have to know exactly what they are yet but just know they are there. The Universe will take care of how those unlimited possibilities will come to you via the Law of Attraction.

You have the ability to change your life just with your thoughts and feelings. If you are feeling down you know that this is the direction you don't want to go in. The don't want direction. Shift to a little bit better feeling and begin to say what you do want. Make this shift over and over again until it becomes a new positive habit and that new positive habit will become a way of life.

Author's Bio: 

Beth and Lee McCain host a popular nationally syndicated weekly radio show Radio LOA and publish the national LOA magazine, The Indicator. You are invited to visit Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site for more Law of Attraction information and free study materials.