Here Are The Top TenReasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One OfThese Deadly Common Mistakes...

By David DeAngelo

MISTAKE#1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

      Haveyou ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted"nice" guys?

      Ofcourse you have.

      Justlike me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed todate "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romanticallyinterested in YOU.

      What'sgoing on here?

      It'sactually very simple...

      Womendon't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choosethe men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

      Andguess what?

      Beingnice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

     Andbeing NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

      Irealize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard toACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.

     Untilyou accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success withwomen that you want.

MISTAKE#2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You"

      Whatdo most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?

      Right!They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.


      Never, ever, EVER.

      Youcannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic andreasoning".

      Thinkabout it.

      Ifa woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect tochange that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

      Butwe all do it.

      Whena woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to changeher mind.

      Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE#3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

      Inour desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us),us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or"permission".

      Another HORRIBLE idea.

      Womenare NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.

      Don'tget me wrong here.

     Youdon't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

     Butif you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approvaland permission for things", think again.

      Youwill never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at menwho seek their approval.

     Doubtme? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys whochase her around and want her approval annoy her...

MISTAKE#4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

      Howmany times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts andflowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn'ttreat her even HALF as well as you did?

      Ifyou're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

      Wellguess what?

      It'sonly NATURAL when this happens...

      That'sright, I said NATURAL.

      Whenyou do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't thinkyou'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention andaffection".

      Yourgood intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation forinsecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right,I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE#5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

      Anotherhuge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they"feel" too early on.

      Attractivewomen are rare.

      Andthey get a LOT of attention from men.

      Most men don't realize this,but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE

      Anattractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who areinterested. This translate into dozens of times perweek, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

      And guess what?

      Attractivewomen have usually dated a LOT of men.

      That'sright. They have EXPERIENCE.

      Theyknow what to expect.

      Andone thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away fasterthan just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really,REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

      Thissignals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for hertoo fast... and can't control themselves.

      Don'tdo it. Lean back. Relax.

      There'sa much better way...

MISTAKE#6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

      Womenare VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

      Youneed to accept this fact, and deal with it.

      Whena man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexualattraction.

      Butdoes the same apply for women?

      Dowomen feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something elsegoing on?

      Well,after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you thatwomen usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by thingsOTHER than looks.

      Haveyou ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men withbeautiful women than the other way around?

      Thinkabout it.

      Womenare more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to theway a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

      Ifyou know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you canmake women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOUfeel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

      Butit's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

      AndANY guy can learn how...

MISTAKE#7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

      Oneof the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've evengotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interestedin men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guyswho are a certain age.

      Andsure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

      ButMOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet orhis looks.

     Thereare personality traits that attract women like a magnet...

      Andif you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

     YOUDO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich,tall, or handsome.

     Letme say this again: If you know how to use your body language andcommunication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerfulsexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE#8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

      EarlierI mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

      Well,another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER towomen.

     Saiddifferently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the womanwants.

      Anotherbad idea...

      Womenare NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren'tattracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE#9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

      NowI'm going to blow your mind...

      Awoman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

     Womenare approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That'sten TIMES.

      Iknow, it might be hard to believe. But for example, ifyou're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

      Andif you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you justsit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

      Andthis goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...

      Approachinga woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissingher, getting physical... everything.

      Ifyou don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up...and LOSE EVERYTHING.

     Andyou KNOW it.

      Itis VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the nextwith a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE#10: Not Getting HELP

      Thisis the biggest mistake of all.

      Thisis the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success withwomen that they truly want.

      Iknow, guys don't like to make themselves look weak orhelpless. We don't like to ask for help.

      Hey,I've been there myself.

      Letme tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful withwomen...

     Aboutfive years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how toapproach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

      Itfrustrated the hell out of me.

      Onenight I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but Ijust couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night...right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to besuccessful with women and dating.

      Well,after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finallyfigured it all out.

     Ican now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I'vedated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girlsas well.

      Ithas been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecurefeeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.

      Iknow that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

      I'vewritten a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States...and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

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Author's Bio: 

David DeAngelo is the author of "Double Your Dating -  WhatEvery Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women", and hastaught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.