I have managed several employees over the years and I'm always surprised with the amount struggling with change and the fear to transform particular areas of their job description or to even grasp new information.

The first week of one job in particular, I recall watching the staff to learn, specially, how they worked as a team and on their own. The same week, a few had come to me for advice. They asked with the assumption I would merely give the answer and they could simply be on their way. As a manager, that was not how I functioned.

I will always devise a path for guidance for staff, but to me it is much more important when one is able to discover the solutions on their own by performing research efficiently firsthand. I watched staff scurry to figure the answers from the inquires regarding what they asked of me. Once they had decided to put forth proper initiative, I suddenly saw the light bulbs above their heads flashed before my eyes.

The team had effectively provided an understanding and new found appreciation for doing something on their own; they found a way to transform assumptions into concrete processes of solutions. The next week, 4 team members stood in my office to thank me. They stated no one ever believed in them enough to identify problems, let alone to provide them tools needed to solve any on their own.

1. Welcome each opportunity: Opportunities may come and go, but know the next is right around the corner so keep your eyes peeled. How will you ever know all the opportunity that awaits if one never opens their mind to excepting their potential is always nearby. Maintain a positive perspective and overcome negativity that may be associated with unknown outcomes of opportunities, meaning never make a decision or assumption within an opportunity until it has been experienced by you!

2. Help yourself before helping another: One cannot ever fully be of assistance to someone else without feeling love or respect for themselves. Do not ever give advise to another without being sure you do not need to take the same advise first and foremost. Trust to ask for help is okay and no one is perfect. Despite what may be the case, know there is always a potential for improvement to overcome self-loathing and animosity.

3. “Vent Vomit” Theory: I came up with the phrase “Vent Vomit”, as a clear cut way to identity and release thoughts through writing or talking about them. People can take the mind for granted and miss out on great ideas or notions, because they may have felt the concept to be insignificant.

In reality, this theory provides more openness within themselves. Concentrate on every aspect the mind portrays. The qualities, creativity, ideas, and thought processes are all aspects to be focused on more consciously, rather than be shunned or ignored. This can help overcome writers block and other areas of life that partake in battles of the brain enabling treatment or even a cure to stop, grasp the thoughts within the mind, and place them into action.

4. Keep the past in the past: The past is meant to teach the life lessons that prove to be important for future endeavors of all types. Those moments may take years to evolve and to realize what was supposed to be taken away from particular experiences.

Understanding past events such as, heartache, pain, or some sort of struggle, make one who they are in the present to signify all the purposes of why certain circumstances were created and lived through. Use the past as a prevention tool that is there to offer assistance to fix problems you face today.

5. Create and accept challenges: Challenges represent and encourage one to go the extra mile to provide a way to overcome fears and doubt for success. Challenges differentiate from opportunities by that of chance. One can ether take the opportunity to accept every challenge brought forth, or not.

Below is a formula better associating a visual of a "how to" formula to figure out how to challenge desired achievements to execute success:

*“Successful Challenge” Formula*
Brainstorm Challenges For Achievement + Planning and Mapping Needs to Reach Objective + Execute Objective Completion = Success

Try new challenges to achieve as often as possible. If there is a desire to overcome a challenge know you can do so with the will inside. Remember to never quit, never give up, never doubt who you are or even why you are doing it. Always embrace every positive transformation encountered and become committed to surpassing your expectations.

To overcome aspects of life that may need types of alterations can seem out of reach for some; however, I discovered enhancements for one to make transformations seem more attainable for those to reap the power of personal and profession rewards. The benefits can improve day-to-day life with ease and consider limitless possibilities.

Author's Bio: 

Mandy has always been able to look at each issue within life as if the cup were half full. She has learned to never settle for any venture in life; however, all journeys are to be embraced as personal and professional challenges. Each and every opportunity should be seen as the ground for initiating growth, intellect and experience. Mandy takes anyone or anything for granted, because she gives every task, each part of her heart and soul to ensure objectives are successfully achieved.

After managing for a number of years, Mandy learned how invaluable life is, including human drive to meet desires by never giving up on dreams, even when life is at its worst. As a writer, a host of her own blog, and her general love for life has inspired her to help others see life for what it is...A miracle.

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