It’s amazing but many guys unknowingly ruin their dating game because they do the same things other guys do and just end up frustrated and perplexed. Check out the following common dating mistakes so you can get rid of them and tighten up your dating game.

One of the biggest mistakes most guys make when looking for a new date is obsessing over one woman. They see a gorgeous girl and decide to go over and totally blow the gig by hanging around like a bad smell. I bet you’ve done this and I bet you know loads of guys who do it and I’ll bet it’s always had the same outcome: no deal dude! Hanging around one woman is uncool, it gets on their nerves, it freaks them out and the nicer you are to her and the more you persist, the more freaked she gets and will do anything just to fob you off. Why? Because you are behaving like a little love-struck puppy who follows his master everywhere! Is that the quality a beautiful woman seeks in a man?

How many times have you noticed a cutie you simply couldn’t take your eyes off? You were so smitten all you could do was to keep looking, admiring all of her. But making an approach terrified you! So you just stood there drooling taking as much of her into your mind as you could. Bad news: girls hate to be ogled by drooling weirdos! OK, there’s nothing wrong with admiring her, but ogling her freaks her out. And if you do muster up enough courage to make an approach, you’ll get nowhere. Ogling a girl really is a freaky thing to do, it makes you look like a lecherous pervert – not exactly the “romantic hero” she dreams about. Oh, and you’re making your intentions blatantly obvious, killing any attraction she may feel stone dead. Better is to act outraged, as if she has been ogling you: “That’s so bad, you keep looking at me in the same way a lioness eyes up a gazelle. I’ve been warned about man-eaters like you!” Get the idea?

I’m about to reveal to you the magical secret of attraction. For women, this secret acts like a magnet if a man has it. They will describe it as “the it factor” and the good news is any man can possess it. Ready? It’s confidence. But what is a confident male? He is a man who is comfortable with himself and who has a life. He isn’t needy, approval seeking or clingy. He can communicate with women in a way that says “I select who comes into my life and you have to impress me to get a shot at the title”. He never kisses up to a woman, isn’t intimidated by looks and doesn’t obsess over one woman. He knows he can get a woman whenever he wants and is indifferent to the outcomes. Summed up, he BELIEVES he is a catch and if a woman doesn’t want along, HER LOSS. He is fun to be around, isn’t an aggressive bully or belittling idiot, nor is he foolish or boyish and when he approaches a woman, he does it confidently, with the belief that she’ll want him. But most guys aren’t confident with women and they betray this to women by being nervous and fidgety around them, by avoiding eye contact and by making a timid, almost apologetic approach. Be confident, get your dating game sorted out and women will be magnetically attracted to you.

By dumping these dating sins, you’ll sharpen your dating game and enjoy a huge advantage over most other guys. Make sure it works for you by putting what you’ve learned into action – tonight!

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