According to astrology, the house of marriage is just the opposite (@180-degree angle) to Lagna means self. So, it is quite natural that differences may be possible because of opposite opinions or thoughts. Now, it depends where are lord of Lagna and house of marriage are placed, their distance and positioning. If, they are well placed and suitable positions, in that case, both are understanding each other, and both will enjoy life in a better way. But if they try to explain or force to understand their views and opinion to their partner, this will develop silent thinking of forcing or arguing for their opinion and feeling, causing differences or arguments. Slowly and gradually, repulsion – resulting confrontation.
Spoiling a decent combination and negative impact on children and their approach towards life.
Auspicious connection – indicates that good advice or a person may guide the couple to understand each other. Situation/person may help each other to understand their work, situations under which they are working and suggest them to understand each other than to force or explain them to understand. Which may avert confrontation.
Many times, the 12th house has some issues, indicates – either one of the spouses is forced to live away for some period (which separately) or due to some or other reasons (with their own) is making them avoid physical romance, etc. Or if they are fighting in the bedroom. These are three different situations, but basic concept of admiring each other and feeling their emotional and physical (inclusive of health) requirements. If a couple can understand this point one of the important areas is covered for decent married life. That’s why the importance of the twelfth house is checked.
In many cases, it is seen that food quality or taste-wise both are unable to understand each other, which is causing distraction or charm of having food at home. Or having fought at the dining table. A clear indication of the lack of understanding of the taste and requirement of the partner. It is clear from many studies that when food of the house is good, healthy tasty and required according to the family’s requirement, issues of the family are always resolved. Good food is one point which may help to give internal happiness. Many times, it is seen that due to Dasha's cycle this problem of family life and food, etc. increases.
Now in a layman language, let us understand in a short way –
Simply, if the couple will try to understand each other, there will be no ego clashes or misunderstandings. One can see that in beautiful married life cases, understanding between husband and wife had played important role. Neither of them had tried to force to understand their feelings, rather partner had come forward to understand feelings/personality.
This will help to understand each other’s work, complications, taste, behavior, and give additional love and attraction charm among them.
One can see, in case of a love relationship, initially, both will try to understand each other, but as it goes forward, both will be demanding, expect that their partner must understand his/her point of view.
So, for successful married or love relationships, we must understand each other. As much we can understand, the success rate will be reaching to a higher level.
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