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Today I’m Asking You: What Do We Do?
Rather than giving you my relationship advice like I do in most of my blogs, I’m going to do something a little differently today!
Rather than “teach” anything, I am simply sharing some questions around how men and women relate to each other. When men ... Views: 1671
How many times have you heard this when you ask someone how they’re doing: “I’m FINE! And you?”…and, you simply KNEW that you were being fed a line of hooey? How often has that happened to you with men as opposed to women? Perhaps, in these times, it’s an even more important question to ask, ... Views: 1659
On March 8th, 2016, the whole planet celebrated the International Day of Women. However, one may ask about the reasons that could gear the members of the gentle gender to participate in that precious event.
Did they achieve their objectives of being treated as equals to their male ... Views: 1644
“You know what Air-Guitar is, What is Air-Palm?
• 1. “Did you know that Guitar companies internationally hold contests for big prizes for the best Air-Guitar pretenders?”
• 2. “No, why, they are just like Elvis imitators or Mimes.”
• 3. “Well, these contests attract thousands, and they ... Views: 1631
The problem with shyness is it feels like you’ll never overcome it.
It takes a grip over you as soon you have to meet people or introduce yourself to someone.
And it grips you until the very end of the interaction.
To many of us with shyness it feels like an enormous wall that blocks us ... Views: 1630
While eating dinner with a single male friend of mine, I was reminded again how important timing is in relationships. There's no way around it. We either manage the situation or the situation manages us. After we both pitched in the obligatory small talk, the conversation turned to the ... Views: 1622
“Are You ‘Normal’ and Hate Learning?”
• 1. Me: “Normal is the opposite of Abnormal, right? Dictionary.com defines ‘normal’ as Average-Ordinary-Common. Add: mediocre & second-rate.
• Normal makes you Defensive toward Change, Improvement, and expanding your Comfort-Zone.
Are Bill Gates, ... Views: 1620
One of the most important "ingredients", if not the most important in your image as a man, and eventually in your success to attract women, is your confidence and the way you convey it externally.
Having confidence allows you to remain calm and relaxed. Being confident, allows you to overcome ... Views: 1607
Today’s blog is about pain and the prescription for it, all rolled into one! First, let’s talk about the pain.
I hear all kinds of complaints about men from women. I hear frustration, genuine concern and fears that mostly centre around the fact that they don’t feel they’re getting what they ... Views: 1606
When most guys become aware of the realities of human courtship - on the street we call it "game" - we become highly attuned to the reality that women test men.
"Women test men." I can still remember how it felt to hear those words the first time somebody explained the concept of testing to ... Views: 1605
As featured in the HUFF POST:
Learn to Reduce Your Stress in 8 Simple Steps!
Stress can make an unfortunate appearance at any time of year, but when we are challenged, tired, or going through a crisis, it can spike. Though we can’t “stop” stress from entering our lives, we can take ... Views: 1604
We begin forming relationships from the moment we’re born, yet by the time we’re adults, it’s easy to feel completely inexperienced. Whether we’re raised in loving, nurturing homes or in a less open environment, relationships often leave us feeling vulnerable, uncertain and insecure.
A key ... Views: 1599
“Are You ‘Normal’ and Hate Learning?”
• 1. Me: “Normal is the opposite of Abnormal, right? Dictionary.com defines ‘normal’ as Average-Ordinary-Common. Add: mediocre & second-rate.
• Normal makes you Defensive toward Change, Improvement, and expanding your Comfort-Zone.
Are Bill Gates, ... Views: 1596
Do you know that prevention is better than cure? In fact, if you prevent insomnia from happening on you, you can lead a better life! Today in this article, I will provide you some tips and tricks that can help you sleep in no time! (I used these methods to help me sleep before, so have no ... Views: 1584
Dear Dr. Romance:
I recently read "Does First-Love ever die? How to deal with a flame that still flickers" While my situation doesn't parallel the situations you described in the article, it's very similar.
About 8-9 mos ago, I ran into a highschool crush on a social ... Views: 1572
Men's Sexual Health Treatment
Men's Sexual Health Treatment
Male sexual health includes infertility problems, sexually transmitted diseases and erectile dysfunction. This article will focus on sexual dysfunction. Remedies include prescription or non-prescription drugs, surgery and ... Views: 1568
Dear Dr. Romance
I came across your name and contact details on a web it whilst trying to find info' to help my relationship. I wonder if you might be able to offer me any advice please ?
My girlfriend always wants to take control and the way she speaks to me at times is though ... Views: 1562
Hmm
Of course the answer is make new friends right? Especially if you wished you had a more active social life and you’re not social.
The reason I’m bringing up this topic is to discuss how we sabotage ourselves when it comes to the social success we want.
When you can figure out where ... Views: 1556
Erectile dysfunction is a common sex problem in men especially the middle age and elderly men. Defined as difficulty in holding sustained erections during love making, erectile dysfunction, although a worrisome condition can be easily treated and cured with the help of certain drugs, supplements ... Views: 1554
“If You Hate Popeye, Squinting & Smiling, Forgettaboutit”.
• 1. “I find your columns boring and mostly irrelevant, but you have wandered off the cliff when you drag in Exodus 3:14. What on-this-planet does the Bible have to do with your damn SpeedReading101?
• 2. Oh yeah Professor, your ... Views: 1552
“How do you attract women?” Tell me, what’s the answer?
I’m not talking about the politically correct answers like “Ask her out for dinners” or “Tell her how beautiful she is.” That stuff is reserved for people born in the 1920’s
More and more women are coming out and admitting that a ... Views: 1550
The thing is, there really is a difference in how you feel after you overcome shyness.
I'm not talking about overcoming shyness where you get bold for a brief moment and then anxiety creeps back in.
I'm talking about a full blown recovery where there is no going back.
A few years ago I ... Views: 1550
Before a man has even got to the point where he is in a relationship with a woman, there is a strong chance that they will already be having sex. If this is not the case, it could show that he is religious.
Conversely, it could be a sign that he is more traditional and wants to take his ... Views: 1549
When your spouse pursues a separation, it's natural to be concerned about his motivations. One common concern that I hear a lot about comes from women who are concerned that their husband truly wants a divorce because he wants to start seeing other women.
These concerns are understandable. ... Views: 1543
To give and not expect return, that is what lies at the heart of love.
Blessed are those who are able to give without remembering and to take without forgetting.
Give to others builds human spirit. Every act of generosity and the willingness to give of our time, our interest, concern, ... Views: 1542
Sex is surely one of the most powerful of all human experiences. It can drive people to the pinnacle of ecstasy or it can spiral others to the depths of self-loathing and despair. Sexual expression is meant to tie, or connect, to our core sense of self. Sexual energy is part of our life ... Views: 1542
Does this sound familiar? You go to a loud club and your friends tell you that they can’t hear you even though you’ve been talking in a louder voice. Your throat feels raw and sore or perhaps you have lost your voice after an hour or two of straining to be heard.
What you are experiencing ... Views: 1535
Depression is one of the most awful things to get a handle on because you can be feeling dreadful yet to the outside World you look alright. You may have been feeling fine six months ago and now you are telling them that you wish you were dead, you are suicidal, you cannot get any enthusiasm to ... Views: 1530
Why is it so hard for some of us to say that we are sorry even when we know that our actions were wrong? If you don’t know this, allow me to educate you on a fact of life. We are all human so there is not a person in this world who has never made a mistake. We are all capable of making mistakes ... Views: 1521
There is no specific textbook to teach men and women how to act in a relationship, as everybody is different. That being said, it is always important to stay true to who you are and to the principles you truly believe in, and to always act as your heart dictates you to act. However, there are ... Views: 1519
Secrets are very common in relationships, and when people hear or find out that their partner is keeping something from them they automatically assume the worst. However, just because you might find out that your man is keeping something from you; this doesn't always mean it is a bad thing. ... Views: 1514
You know it...
That moment where you see that girl and you want to go talk to her.
Maybe it's in school, maybe it's at work, maybe it's at the gym....
Who cares where it is! You just want to go talk to her and get her to like you.
Right?
But the problem is you're too shy to do ... Views: 1502
Dear MrDad. I'm a new father. I haven't had much experience with infants and I want to be involved in my daughter's care, but every time I try to pick her up, she starts to fret. How can I feel more competent?
A: Few things can make a man feel less like a man than feeling incompetent. And ... Views: 1499
“Nice guys finish last” I’m sure many shy men can relate with this statement.
I’ve seen over the years that shy men have an air of “I’ll always be nice no matter what.” They are easily forgiving of others regardless of what the situation is.
Overly NICE guys also tend to remember things ... Views: 1494
Locating the ideal electronics gifts for your man or men in your life is not always as simple a task as it looks. On the flip side, you can not fail with technology and electronic equipment. From clever TVs to smart house accessories, speakers, earbuds, gaming gadgets, and everything in between, ... Views: 1494
How often do you have someone who sends you an email with, “I have a couple of quick questions.”
As you read their questions you quickly realize it will require a fair amount of time to respond to all of them.
Wanting to be polite, the temptation is for you to respond. It’s not that you ... Views: 1492
For some men, casual sex is something that they will engage in from time to time, while there are others who only have casual sex. When it comes to the former, this could be something that takes place after a man has just been in a relationship.
Going with another woman, more or less ... Views: 1491
In the fall of 1990, I was meeting with two other men on a regular basis to explore our dreams and aspirations. Every two weeks, we would gather at a Chinese buffet and talk for several hours about things we’d like to do some day. It was around the time of the Men’s Movement, where men went ... Views: 1486
Thoughts, Words, and FEELINGS
Emotions for me are a necessary evil. I absolutely hate the way emotions can completely blind a mind from logic. This is one of the main reasons that it takes me a long, long time to become emotionally attached to anybody. It seems that whenever I become ... Views: 1482
No surprise to any woman to hear that we are wired differently than men. We approach life differently and we remember events differently.
As a broad brush statement, men compartmentalize their memory of events and the emotions. As women, we are wired to tie our emotions around each ... Views: 1479
Dear Dr. Romance:
I suffer with sleeping alone in "our" bedroom while my wife of 14 years, sleeps in our two pre-teen sons' bedroom. I've tried to talk and reason with her about this important problem, only to fall on deaf ears. I'm desperate. What else can i do? ... Views: 1462
Dear Dr. Romance :
I'm getting worried because my husband is drinking more, and laughing less. He works too much, he has lost interest in his guy friends and sports. He's gotten more tense, and is on edge and irritable. Sometimes he even yells at me and the kids. I think maybe he needs ... Views: 1458
In the world of personal development there seems to be two lines of tought with regards to personality change. On one side of the spectrum, some say yes - you can and have to change. After all, you need to change in order to become the person you want to be. On the other hand, you have those who ... Views: 1456
Ahh rejection.
Rejection is pretty hard on the soul.
It can make you feel unwanted, lonely and frustrated.
It doesn't matter if you’re the average Joe or a big shot executive. It hurts just the same; and with today’s fast paced society the world can feel extra punishing.
When you can ... Views: 1451
A sugar baby is a male or female that is a companion for a person usually older in exchange for gifts, money, rent etc. A sugar baby is not a hooker or a gold digger, if you need milk you go to a store so I see nothing wrong with someone being compensated for their time. As a sugar baby you are ... Views: 1448
Seeing an older man is now popular for all different reasons and fall into two different categories. The first division you have is that some are for love and others are for sexual or practical reasons. There is a huge difference between a woman wanting to be with an older and more maturee man ... Views: 1444
Do you want to find out how to make a man want you? While it doesn't involve any love potions or magic spells, it does involve some common sense, a lot of confidence, and several tricks of the trade.
Despite the fact that every man out there is unique, you need to understand that there are ... Views: 1433
According Wikipedia the word, Manic means: affected with, relating to, characterized by or resulting from.
It's a perfect word to describe what many men are feeling in this rapidly changing world. For our purposes today we'll use the word MAN tongue-in-cheek in Manic. The reason is, men have ... Views: 1428
It is sometimes difficult for women to find the right men and especially for BBW. This is because men tend to be more superficial when it comes to qualities referring to physical appearance of women. This means that there are a lot of women who start as losers in the dating game even from the ... Views: 1423
If a man was to end up in an intimate relationship, he may find that he feels fairly comfortable. Perhaps he is with someone who he has a good connection with and is physically attracted to.
There is then going to be no reason for him to keep this area of his life to himself, with him being ... Views: 1414