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During last four years, my brain has been shocked, jogged and twisted. It has remained critical, and perplexed. As a paid volunteer, I have worked with approximately 350 residents.
There were no social workers at this shelter (residents --ages 18 to 69 - male and female.) Affordability? ... Views: 900
A lot has changed since the publication of my book. I shared my personal story dealing with an emotionally unavailable man (EUM) I was seeing at the time. The friendship was great -we couldn't have bonded any tighter- but true to my own integrity as an author and coach (as per my own advice ... Views: 15444
It is in our nature as a woman to want to feel cherished by the man we love. We want to be wooed and pursued, to be made to feel special, adored and to be treated like a princess. The question is how far would a man be inspired to satisfy our primal needs as a woman?
He's Really That Into ... Views: 25629
We've been told that the way to love is pretty linear and straightforward with guys. They take us to a first date, they like us, they make plans and ask us to be exclusive within a month or two, they fall in love and pop the question. Trust me when I say that very often guys don't know how they ... Views: 10250
1. Your bubbliness and extroversion does not distract us from the fact that you are fat.
Observe a group of girls in a bar. There is always one who is louder, acts crazy and seems to dance and drink more than everyone else. She's very talkative and laughs a lot - she's the centre of attention ... Views: 1890
An affair is one of the most difficult challenges a couple can face. It is a powerful catalyst that can either end the relationship or take it to a greater level of intimacy. An extreme symptom of a relationship that has been in trouble for some time, affairs do not happen out of the blue. ... Views: 2072
Another week brings us another celebrity couple's split to ponder.
This week, it's the announced breakup between George Clooney and the impossibly hot, Italian model-actress-broadcaster and now ex-girlfriend, Elisabetta Canalis.
Elisabetta Canalis certainly is marriage material for at ... Views: 1109
Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II
In Part I we talked about three key elements for women to consider when dating a divorced man.
As the Heart Protector of Women, let me remind you that before allowing him to participate in any “undercover operations”, you must ... Views: 2050
Dear Dr. Romance:
How do I make him understand? So my soon-to-be-ex is still in the house as well as myself! This is not working! He keeps trying to make things better, but I don't feel anything for him anymore. He has been better to me but is still very rude to our son and says hurtful ... Views: 1767
Dear Dr. Romance, I just wanted to express to you how I thoroughly enjoyed your article about how there should be a tennis match type of communication. The guy I like hasn't been responding when he usually responds and though he's a busy professional, I get upset that he ... Views: 2215
Maybe you’ve tried every strategy that you can think of to lure your ex boyfriend back into your arms and back into your life but it just doesn’t seem to be working. You have tried playing hard to get; you’ve tried obsessing over what he’s doing and calling every hour; you’ve showed up ... Views: 16055
Text messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build attraction and to lay a great foundation for a lasting relationship with a man.
Unfortunately, many women are at a loss for how to properly leverage this technology to make a man feel intense level of attraction toward her ... Views: 38173
You remember the scene, yellow daisy in hand, the girl is picking petals off one at a time reciting “He loves me, He loves me not, He loves me...” and hoping for the luck of the draw. Relationships can feel like this wondering if he really does love you at all. How will you know for sure?
As ... Views: 2052
Hello ladies - today we're talking about what to expect in love and dating. Expectations can be a useful meter to test a particular guy against what you feel you deserve. The obvious problem though is setting these expectations too high and demanding more from a potential relationship than is ... Views: 2149
Step 1: Understand the user's goal and get acquainted with the reasons for buying people
What is the purpose of the target market?
First, it's better to have a detailed explanation of the target market. The target market is a small part of the market available to people who ... Views: 1003
I love the feeling of writing this because I know I have been a keen watcher of people who have “the eye” over the years. I was indeed many a time on the receiving end of boyfriends past, who had the eye.
I have heard a gazillion times “oh he /she definitely has the eye.” It seemed a common ... Views: 1102
In the world of personal development there seems to be two lines of tought with regards to personality change. On one side of the spectrum, some say yes - you can and have to change. After all, you need to change in order to become the person you want to be. On the other hand, you have those who ... Views: 1456
This may seem self-explanatory, but as we all know not everything is as easy as it looks. Courting a woman is a process; there is no doubt about it. Time and effort and required to successfully gain the admiration and/or love of any young lady. The common problem that men run into, while ... Views: 9231
My male best friend from my home country recently, in a state of panic, IMed me, "Where are you? I need to talk. It's really urgent." When we finally talked he was shaking in anguish: he found out his wife was cheating on him with the next-door neighbor and the guy's wife informed him at 3 am a ... Views: 10672
OK, guys, YOU ALL KNOW that being a nerd isn’t really a turn on. Chicks don’t dig nerds. Well, at least not until they get rich. But until then, these guys will spend MANY HOURS trying to figure out: “How to make a girl like you?”.
There are a lot of nerds out there. Many of you guys are ... Views: 2574
The college aged daughter of a close friend of mine recently asked her mom "my boyfriend wants to take a break, what does that mean?" Her daughter was confused, heart broken and a little angry and was looking for advice.
If you're in the same situation here are a few tips than can help you ... Views: 21886
As the Heart Protector of Women I have come to the realization that when a woman feels connected with a man she is dating, she can sometimes end up in a quandary of emotions regarding future expectations. Females are still encouraged today from a young age to allow the male to pursue them, but ... Views: 1938
Women have probably heard this phrase many times in their lives: “If you really love me, you’d....” fill in the blank. Most of the time those comments are referring to the guy wanting her to prove her love by having sex with him, but today I want to hit on THREE ways women can put out that will ... Views: 3348
Want to be a true ladies man? Want to win over that special girl? Believe it or not, your career matters just as much as your social skills.
Or better stated, your mission means just as much. Your mission is your chosen pursuit in life -- the one thing you do that you feel most passionate ... Views: 1124
A sugar baby is a male or female that is a companion for a person usually older in exchange for gifts, money, rent etc. A sugar baby is not a hooker or a gold digger, if you need milk you go to a store so I see nothing wrong with someone being compensated for their time. As a sugar baby you are ... Views: 1448
Are you a dumped girlfriend? What does it take to move on after a guy has broken up with you? Do you want to move on, but are paralyzed by sadness? Here is a dumped girlfriend guide to moving on.
While Still Mourning, Do Realize That You Can Still Seduce Your Ex Back. Here's How:
The ... Views: 27542
Here's a basic layout of why this happens from first date to when the men drift and seem like there interest in you has disappeared. It is quite simple really, but can be something that you overlook, or just don't understand this basic fact...
Why He Pulls Away: Common Facts
Right from the ... Views: 3438
It's a controversial issue to be sure. There are many opinions on why men fail when it comes to meeting, attracting, and ultimately keeping exceptional women. Navigating all of this info can be a daunting task and lead you just about nowhere. Through years of study, conversation, and testing, ... Views: 2621
It sure is great to be a guy in this day in age, isn’t it? It is not uncommon for men to hold multiple relationships with women in various places, while they decide which one they want to be with. It’s almost like a reality show when you think about it. Yet, when women do the same thing they ... Views: 1209
We begin forming relationships from the moment we’re born, yet by the time we’re adults, it’s easy to feel completely inexperienced. Whether we’re raised in loving, nurturing homes or in a less open environment, relationships often leave us feeling vulnerable, uncertain and insecure.
A key ... Views: 1599
I've received so many requests for advice from women who are desperate because their men either broke up with them or became more and more distant and less willing to keep in touch or show affection.
I can relate to that. I have had my share of similar experience in my 20's when a man whom I ... Views: 12194
We all fall hard, difference is some people know how to handle the end of relationship better than others. It's not the depth of the falling-in-love that hurts the most but the height of the expectations. The higher your expectation is, the more you hurt when it ends.
And we all learn from ... Views: 9295
Being a relationship coach and dealing with breakup issues a good chunk of time, I have a lot of anxious female clients/readers who are on the brink of a nervous breakdown because they feel their world is falling apart: i.e. their men seem to fade into the state of indifference. They panic and ... Views: 11647
If you think men just want to lead a bachelor life without any concern in the world while having you on the side because it's convenient to him, you are mistaken. Do realize that both men and women want to love and be loved. Both genders want a great relationship as it is our inherent need. ... Views: 15079
Eighty percent of men are distancers and 80% of women are pursuers. Women have 10-15 times more oxytocin (the bonding hormone) than men, and men have 10 times more testosterone (go-getter hormone) than women: so based on that chemical proportion alone, it's obvious women need more closeness than ... Views: 36252
How does a woman attract amazing men who will give them what she wants: love, commitment, adoration?
By being a happy, independent, secure and self-confident woman. Your looks will get you in the door but to keep a man attracted to you for the long haul, you have to have those inner ... Views: 15712
The amount of time we get to spend with our partners is less and less. Commutes are longer, people often spend eight or ten hours at the computer and in meetings. Our increasingly complex lives also come with a host of professional, personal, and hobby-related commitments. As a result, the ... Views: 10921
Wow, what a punch in the stomach. You were just dumped. It can be a shock, even if all the signs were there. Now comes the hard part, what to do next? If you've just said 'my boyfriend left me, what should I do now?" the answer might not be what you expected!
As humans it is our nature, ... Views: 15609
If you have a new guy in your life and are in the early stages of courtship, chances are good you will be texting him and he will be texting you. Flirty texting is fun, but if you aren't careful, you can unknowingly put a huge damper on his attraction.
If he is pulling away from you, one of ... Views: 39858
Dear Dr. Romance:
I was wondering if in any of your books or articles you discuss about why men in their mid 40s-50s might be attracted to 20ish girls. I kind of know the obvious reasons, but being more curious about what that might mean maturity wise etc.
Dear Reader:
From your ... Views: 3356
You know it...
That moment where you see that girl and you want to go talk to her.
Maybe it's in school, maybe it's at work, maybe it's at the gym....
Who cares where it is! You just want to go talk to her and get her to like you.
Right?
But the problem is you're too shy to do ... Views: 1502
Men are biologically different to women, and yet so many women seem to have no idea why their partners act the way they do. The very biological differences that draw so many people together are also sometimes the very things that can drive them apart.
Biologically, men have almost the ... Views: 14260
Text messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build attraction and to lay a great foundation for a lasting relationship with a man.
Unfortunately, many women are at a loss for how to properly leverage this technology to make a man feel intense level of attraction toward her ... Views: 18527
I would grab women's attention usually with my height and the wide and varied things I've done with my life, even at a young age. They would let me know indirectly - moving differently than for other men in the vicinity, trying to label me, whether it was as a nice guy, a player, a charmer, a ... Views: 2542
Whether it is online dating or the more traditional methods, finding someone who is just as interested in you is only half the battle. The problems most Men (and Women) face is when it comes time to actually engage with this person for the first time.
Knowing how best to approach women is ... Views: 1276
The world of business and industry has improved dramatically for women over the past two decades but we are still hearing a lot about male chauvinism, glass ceilings and gender discrimination. Despite the positive efforts of business leaders, I personally believe that there is a diminished but ... Views: 1347
Alright, so you’re saying my wife fell out of love with me, and you’re hurting.
It does hurt, I know that.
You’re feeling like your world is falling apart. You’re wondering how you’re ever going to be able to live without her again. You’re even wondering what you could have, or should ... Views: 9456
Dear Dr. Romance:
I suffer with sleeping alone in "our" bedroom while my wife of 14 years, sleeps in our two pre-teen sons' bedroom. I've tried to talk and reason with her about this important problem, only to fall on deaf ears. I'm desperate. What else can i do? ... Views: 1462
Do you need romance?How romantic are you? It tends to be considered to be old fashioned now to be interested in charm, dating, getting to know someone and to use courtesy and court a lover. Holding hands, sending flowers, sending love letters and many other things can be a sign of living this ... Views: 2123
The social dynamics between men and women is just as complicated as the sexual dynamics between men and women. Lies are actually a common aspect of these dynamics with many reasons why this is so. Why do men lie? You'll hear women ask this a lot. The answer is not as big of a surprise as you ... Views: 1908