Remember the earlier days when you and your spouse had sex almost every day—ok, every day. A gentle and simple touch can immediately spark sexual attraction. A simple kiss could instantly end you and your spouse in the bed, despite the day stress. You even made every sex extra special, kinky, and romantic. You and your spouse wore the sexiest lingerie and body scents. You romantically adorned your bed and room with candles, flowers, dim lights, and new bed sheets. You even looked for time and place to have sex. You had sex anywhere and anytime. You had sex in breakfast and lunch. You had sex in the kitchen, living room, dining room, backyard, and even in the car. You even tried different sex positions, including the wildest ones. Undeniably, it was not a stage of sexless marriage. It was the honeymoon stage, the first stage of marriage.

Sex then gradually became not regular. From every day, you and your spouse had sex 2-3 times a week. It was still not a stage of sexless marriage, but it was heading to it. You and your spouse still wore those kinky, sexy, and romantic accents. You and your spouse still enjoyed each other’s passionate lovemaking. It was just not every day and wilder anymore.

From 2-3 times a week, sex became weekly, twice a month, monthly, and every other monthly. Sexless marriage eventually started at this alarming frequency. You or your spouse started rejecting each other’s sexual favors. The kinky, sexy and romantic accents were already gone then. Even if you have random sexual urges, you and your spouse surprisingly did not have simultaneous sexual sparks anymore. Sexless marriage became worst. Sex became yearly and even zero.

Could you accept a sexless marriage? Definitely, no. Then, start reflecting instead. What made you and your spouse tirelessly make love every day?Relive the honeymoon stage and keep your marriage.

“Keep your ring and be Always
Happily Married! It is not only easier; it is what you pledged to and
be celebrated” -
Norman Csarni - Founder of Build My Marriage
http://www.buildmymarriage.com

Author's Bio: 

Norman Csarni grew up in Hungary, a communist dominated country. He was 25 years old when he came to the U.S. in 2000, and like many of his predecessors before him, he was in pursuit of the “American dream”. As he passed by the Statue of Liberty, the tears welled up in his eyes as his mind filled with hope for a better life for him and his bride, Victoria.

Norman and Victoria struggled through many hardships as newlyweds in a strange country, but through these difficulties they forged a healthy and happy marriage. Norman may not have a string of degrees to impress you with, but by working through his own marital difficulties and experiences, he wholeheartedly wants to help others keep their marriage alive. He created this website as his personal mission to improve the national “Successful Marriage” ratio.

Successful marriages require not only skill but a lot of hard work. Norman has done an extraordinary amount of research into the field of marriage as well as using his own experiences to provide you with helpful tips, funny videos, rate yourself tests and blogging capabilities on this website.

Norman and Victoria have been happily married 10 years and have two lovely children. They want to help you do the same.